How to get a repeat invite

Posted - 19th Jan 2007

I had an email from someone who came to the October orgy:

Anyway, I just thought I'd say hi. I don't think I had a chance to properly thank you for inviting me to your party. That honestly was probably the most exciting evening I've spent in the past year! :) Not just sex-wise either but you're a really nice guy and you seem to be able to pick equally interesting and attractive guys. I'm not sure if or when I'll be back in the UK but would definitely love to attend another one of your parties! Or just meet up with you again, if ever I'm back in London.

Thanks mister!

Cock pics

Posted - 18th Jan 2007

Someone sent me a message once saying that my profile was an elaborate way to get cock pics from people.

Well, it would be a very elaborate way to get cock pics but it's not my reason for being here! However, that's not to say that people don't send them. THEY'RE NOT WHAT I WANT!!! I never invite people based on a picture of their cock. It's face pics that get the invites. I think that if you fancy the guy based on the face then you will have good sex irrespective of cock size/shape.

A common request to come will have no pics on their profile and 3 attached pics. The first will be a pic of their cock (my heart sinks), the second will be of their arse (sob) and the third will be of their face (fuzzy despite the crystal clear body pics or with a hat and glasses on).

If you want an invite I need face pics - either on your profile or in a message. Thanks in advance!

FAQs

Posted - 17th Jan 2007
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I get an invite?
• Get in early! I send invites out a couple of weeks beforehand, so don’t dally. Upsettingly, I have to turn down hot guys who apply a couple of days beforehand ‘cos it’s full.
• Have clear face pics. Either on your profile or sent in an email or message. It worries me when pics are blurry, you are in the distance or your face is obscured! I’m assuming this is your best pic. I don`t believe you have a clear pic of your cock and arse and not your face. What are the guys like?
• Guidelines are nice looking and 18-40. I know it’s shallow but I can’t interview all of you! Not overweight please.
• Profiles which portray you as a pleasant/personable guy are always winners - I want the evening to be sociable as well as sexy. ‘Guy next door’ would be the general look I suppose.
• Race is not a factor in the decision and there is a range of ethnicities at the orgy.

Can I have a list of guys coming?
• No. I don’t provide a list of guys coming – it’s a discreet orgy and I really want to put off timewasters who just want to see the list! You’re going to have to trust my judgement – I get ALOT of requests and I pick the best. The guys who have attended are great guys – sociable and sexy. This is exactly the atmosphere I am after.
• I have between 20 and 30 guys at each.

What happens at the orgy?
• The orgy is vanilla, safe sex, no smoking and no drugs (poppers are fine). On arrival guys strip to pants, we have a drink and chat and off we go. It goes on for 4-6 hours (not everyone stays till the end!). Everyone gets there at the same time so that it starts with a bang!
• It takes place at my flat in Islington. It starts in the lounge and then spreads to the bedroom and sometimes the kitchen (although that tends to be the chill out area!). Do you reply to all messages?
• I try to – if you have completely ignored what’s written on the profile then I may ignore you. • I get alot of interest. I have to turn down most guys who apply. I’m sorry! But keep this in perspective and don’t give me grief. Here are some examples:
 ‘I know where u live in fact and will be reporting u to police - have fun!!!' (They didn't turn up - damn!).
 ‘its for whites only then.. racist fucker...’ (no – his conviction that it was nothing to do with being fat and ugly was touching)
 I just got a turndown message, strange because I'm not a turndown type. (My favourite!)
• There should be a test – if you react badly to being turned down then I don’t want you in my house (it’s a paradox).

First of many

First posted - 17th Jan 07
Great - I was considering setting up a website to give some more information and voice my frustrations and joys of running Islingtonorgy. However, a lack of any practical knowledge sort of scuppered that plan. But this seems like a suitable alternative!

Welcome to Islingtonorgy

Hey, I've been keeping a blog on gaydar, where they are beta testing blogs - but they don't seem to be taking the idea forward, so I thought I would use a blog site that all can see.

I'll transfer the posts that I have already put there and then I'll keep this one up to date.

Hope it goes well!