The good guys

I've talked about Saturday's orgy in the last couple of posts. Typically, I've been talking about the lows - the last minute cancellations and the unexpected guests.

I shouldn't forget the majority of the guys, who apply, confirm, turn up and have a great time. And even send thanks!

hey - last time was was amazing, this time was better. thanks again for a dogs bollocks party and for being such a welcoming, uninhibiting and caring host to all!

Just wanted to say a big thanks for organising last night. I left at about 10.20, did come to say thanks then, but you were kinda a little busy, so to speak.Appreciate your hospitality, welcomeness (if dats a word) and you obviously have a knack of spotting nice genuine lads, good skill.

Hi! Just wanted to say...what an awesome evening!! Thanks so much for the invite. Was really nervous at first and didnt expect it to be sociable!! Everyone was really nice and have made a couple of new friends!!I hope the cleaning up wasnt too bad!! Take care and hopefully see you again at the next one if im invited.

Thanks for a really great night - enjoyed every single minute. I tried to chat before I left but you were "otherwise engaged" - I am sincerely sorry - I knocked a bottle of poppers over in your bedroom, but even by the time I had mopped it up, the room just reeked - I cannot apologise enough!!!!

More excitement from the orgy

I had a first on Saturday (not a sexual one!). Someone turned up who was not invited.

He turned up when there was only two of us there (so my backup that if someone turns nasty then I have 30 guys to help me wasn't going to work!). I'm not going to start letting people attend when they haven't been invited; it would be chaos. I told him this and we had a debate about our prior communications.

He initially asked to come to the May orgy:

Received : Friday 20 April 2007 09:13 Hi there
Your orgy plan sounds hot... I am a german guy who justttt moved to London. Let me know if you want me to join you guys ;)
Cheers mate

I sent him an invite, but he did not respond to it.

Two days before the June orgy he then asked if he could attend:


Received : Thursday 28 June 2007 21:30 Hi!
How are you? ia m back in London and it would be great if i could come for the Saturday`s orgy as i missed the one in April. I know its full but may be you do make some exceptions for the foreigners new in london looking for friends ;-)
Cheers mate

Sent : Thursday 28 June 2007 21:36 Hi - you did not respond to the invite sent in May.

Received : Thursday 28 June 2007 21:41 I don't know why I would not have responded but really interested in coming.

Sent: Thursday 28 June 2007 21:49 I don`t know why you did not respond but I don`t send invites to those who don`t.



So he had my address from the May orgy invite. He had been communicating with me - but through chat and I am usually away from the computer so it was sporadic.

On Saturday afternoon, after buying condoms, I returned to find a chat window where he said he was looking forward to attending and was just leaving! By the time I responded in chat, he had gone. I didn't really think he would turn up.

He left without any bother thankfully. I'm not setting a precedent of letting in guys who have not been invited to that specific orgy.

Thankfully, no-one died or turned out to be an undercover documentary crew!

Sept 1st orgy

31 guys attended the orgy last night. A great bunch of guys - very sociable, everyone seemed to stay a long time which is always cool. Here are the details:

64 initially invited (June 61)
6 additional invites sent (June 9)
45 confirmed (June 41)
9 cancelled (1 on Tue, 1 on Thu, 2 on Fri, 5 on Sat) (June 5)
5 non attenders (June 5)
31 attended (June 31)

31 slim active/versatile
34 defined passive
25 slim versatile
25 defined active
30 defined ???
37 defined active/versatile
28 defined versatile
30 slim active
26 defined passive/versatile
38 muscled versatile
27 slim ???
26 average active
24 defined active/versatile
27 slim passive
35 defined passive
24 slim passive
27 ??? Active/versatile
26 slim passive
27 slim versatile
32 defined versatile
34 muscled ??
25 defined ??
32 defined active
38 defined active
29 defined Active/Versatile
31 average versatile
35 defined versatile
24 slim passive/versatile
29 defined active
29 average active/versatile

I was hoping for a relaxing Saturday, preparing for the orgy - but last minute cancellations meant that I was looking round for a few more guys. I sent 6 additional invites in the end.

It's a little annoying as for the last fortnight I've been swamped by last minute requests from really nice guys. But hey, I prefer guys to cancel than just not turn up.

I was feeling a little narked at having to find more guys (obviously, I could just be satisfied with less than 30 guys being here - but I am a little greedy :0) when I should have been out buying condoms. My mood wasn't helped by two guys who had been before asking if they could have last minute invites and then pulling out later in the afternoon!

So I ask for forgiveness at my grumpiness with this guy. I would usually be understanding, but I just wanted to finalise numbers. Sorry.

hi...a couple more spaces?

Hi - thanks for message. Orgy is vanilla - safe sex, non-smoking. I try to find good looking and sociable guys with the intention of making it sociable as well as sexy. If interested, send an email address and I will add you to the list.Cheers www.islingtonorgy.blogspot.com

thanks, enjoy reading your blog. You have a fun sense of humour. My email is XXX ...a bit nervous to be perfectly honest, but we'll see if I get up the courage...

Don't tell me you're not sure at this point! The orgy is tonight and I'm finalising numbers after cancellations! You should watch for future dates and message me then when you've thought about it and are certain. Cheers

ok, thought about, read more of the blog and I'll come if it's not too late. Thanks anyway and sorry for messing about if it is...

Hey, I've filled it now. Sorry to be touchy - I should be cleaning and buying today rather than finding new people. Watch for future dates. Cheers