Posted 27th Jan 2007
Received : Monday 22 January 2007 13:50 Would be great. How about an invite?
Sent : Wednesday 24 January 2007 21:51 (I sent a message to say no)
Received : Thursday 25 January 2007 00:42 Forget it! I already got warned about you!
Sent : Thursday 25 January 2007 08:23 Warned about me - yikes! The profile gives guidance of 18-40. It outlines the ages of the guys who came to last orgy who ranged from 22-38. You are 46. You applied to come - that's fine. I said no politely. The profile does say to be grown up about it, if I say no. It's not the end of the world. It's just sex. Keep it in perspective.
Received : Thursday 25 January 2007 15:35 Of course. You are quite right BUT I was warned that your orgies are pretty awful affairs. 'nuff said!
Sent : Thursday 25 January 2007 15:58 I guarantee that if you were told that, it wasn't by someone who has attended!
Saturday, 27 January 2007
Wednesday, 24 January 2007
Patience is a virtue
Posted - 24th Jan 2007
Received : Monday 22 January 2007 19:56 Id really be interested to know if there's a charge? Clearly there should be as its your house! Would I qualify please?
Received : Tuesday 23 January 2007 15:53 Hi there I sent you a message asking if i could attend, but had no reply. I asuume this means no? Is it an orgy for rude fuckers?
Sent : Wednesday 24 January 2007 22:08 You sent a message at 8pm on Monday. You sent another one at 4pm on Tuesday. I reply to all messages but I don't spend my whole life doing this. It is not an orgy for rude fuckers which is one reason why you would not be suitable.
Received : Wednesday 24 January 2007 22:47 Thanks for getting back to me - I apologize if I got a bit stroppy - I appreciate that I may have been impatient. I dont know what ur looking for, but how wrong could you be! I may not be a muscle bound twink, but I know how to press the right buttons - Im sure you hear this a lot..but DEF your loss!!!
Please have some patience guys - I do try to respond to all messages but I do have a life outside of Islingtonorgy. Alot of guys who I say no to reply with, 'it's your loss'. Perhaps it is. (There is no charge, by the way!)
Received : Monday 22 January 2007 19:56 Id really be interested to know if there's a charge? Clearly there should be as its your house! Would I qualify please?
Received : Tuesday 23 January 2007 15:53 Hi there I sent you a message asking if i could attend, but had no reply. I asuume this means no? Is it an orgy for rude fuckers?
Sent : Wednesday 24 January 2007 22:08 You sent a message at 8pm on Monday. You sent another one at 4pm on Tuesday. I reply to all messages but I don't spend my whole life doing this. It is not an orgy for rude fuckers which is one reason why you would not be suitable.
Received : Wednesday 24 January 2007 22:47 Thanks for getting back to me - I apologize if I got a bit stroppy - I appreciate that I may have been impatient. I dont know what ur looking for, but how wrong could you be! I may not be a muscle bound twink, but I know how to press the right buttons - Im sure you hear this a lot..but DEF your loss!!!
Please have some patience guys - I do try to respond to all messages but I do have a life outside of Islingtonorgy. Alot of guys who I say no to reply with, 'it's your loss'. Perhaps it is. (There is no charge, by the way!)
Sunday, 21 January 2007
Organised orgy
Posted - 21 Jan 2007
One of the key skills of running this orgy is organisation - the gaydar features help. I use notes to record messages and thoughts, symbols to indicate whether I have sent messages or don't want to invites someone and friends/favourites to mark those who have been and those who have been invited.
As the orgy has been going for a year and I get alot of messages, this helps me keep track of individuals.
I don't think people expect me to remember who they are - I get guys who have sent me abusive messages asking to come to the orgy, i get people saying that they have been to a previous orgy and can they come again (erm - i have no record of inviting you!).
A guy asked if he could come, I sent no (politely) and he sent an abusive message and then blocked me from sending messages. Today he again asked if he could come and had forgotten that he had blocked me sending him messages!
I try to be polite in all my communications. I can't invite everyone! Please try to take rejection calmly, it's only sex!
One of the key skills of running this orgy is organisation - the gaydar features help. I use notes to record messages and thoughts, symbols to indicate whether I have sent messages or don't want to invites someone and friends/favourites to mark those who have been and those who have been invited.
As the orgy has been going for a year and I get alot of messages, this helps me keep track of individuals.
I don't think people expect me to remember who they are - I get guys who have sent me abusive messages asking to come to the orgy, i get people saying that they have been to a previous orgy and can they come again (erm - i have no record of inviting you!).
A guy asked if he could come, I sent no (politely) and he sent an abusive message and then blocked me from sending messages. Today he again asked if he could come and had forgotten that he had blocked me sending him messages!
I try to be polite in all my communications. I can't invite everyone! Please try to take rejection calmly, it's only sex!
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