Short and sweet

hey

hi

are you holding an orgie t2night

no

oh

Thanks but no thanks

People respond to a 'no' in very different ways. I've noticed a couple of coping mechanisms that people have to deal with it.

A common one is replying to my 'no thanks' message with the automated message - you know the one:

Thanks for taking the time to send me a message, but I don`t think our profiles match. Good Luck with your search though. This is an Automated Message.

I get this quite a lot - it always makes me smile. I guess they feel that they have turned me down rather than the other way round.

I very rarely use this automated message myself unless the guy has completely ignored my profile.


Another common reply is, 'I'm too good for you anyway' or even, 'I never wanted to come in the first place'. Here are some examples of responses I've had when I say no:

no mate . ill do better pics, as I`ve a fit defined body, tanned and looking good guys tell me, with areal thick cock, so you need to see that, no problem, Ill try another time with hot pic of me. so many guys use touched up pics and other guys photos, not me, Im cool, not a problem, as cant keep up with my mesg on here any how, so have fun guys. see ya.
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queens don`t turn me on anyway.
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i don`t mind... i get loads of very hot guys - mostly in their mid-20s to early 30s, and have good groups here, so not fussed.have fun !
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And of course the one I get the most:

It's your loss

A few more questions

A couple more questions that people have asked - from the common to the curious.

Hi. I find the idea of an orgy a big turn on but think it would scare me a little. How do you keep it safe and how do you know there won`t be trouble?

Hi - ok, there`s a bit on the blog about your questions, but specifically:

How do you keep it safe?

I think it`s about the tone that is set. I only invite guys with safe sex - always on their profile and emphasise the safe sex aspect on the profile. blog and invite. I think the guys that come here (like the vast majority of gay men) expect safe sex and would be shocked by anyone who wasn`t practicing it.

How do you know there won`t be trouble?

I invite guys with some sort of description on their profiles. This is no guarantee of ensuring that trouble makers don`t turn up - but it is a sure fire way of ensuring that they would be outnumbered hugely. I`m not really sure what could happen. Someone getting overly drunk? Well, it happened last time - see blog - but no trouble, just inconvenience. I`ve been lucky with the guys who come - sexy and sociable and the atmosphere has been thoughtful and sexy. More of a summer of Love than a Winter of discontent.


He didn't respond to this. I'm sure he wanted to thank me for replying to his queries!


Hi mate i'd love to try iy out. would love to get an invite?let me know so i can get a flight organised.matt

This guy lived overseas! I do get people travelling a bit of a distance to attend, but booking a flight!? I would be too anxious about them having a good time - what if they hated it!?


2 guys one 6.5 inch and one 3 inch would love to attend , can you gaurantee that some of the guys will laugh at the tiny guy here,as best you can.

I could not guarantee this and therefore thought it best not to invite this couple.