Another reminder

Just a quick reminder that I don't use gaydar 'tracks' as an indication of interest in the orgy.

I do see a few profiles looking at the profile on a regular basis - that's cool with me. I hope you're reading the blog too.

Just remember that if you do want to come you need to send a message or I will assume you are an interested window shopper. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Read the profile

>ello
hi
sorry, away from comp
>hey there
>thats cool
>when is the next orgy?
have you read the profile?
>got it
cool
>so what do i need to do to get in?
you said you'd read the profile
>well not all of it!!!

Knowing me, knowing you

One worry that guys have is, what if someone I know is there as well. The first thing to point out is that it is extremely unlikely and doesn't really happen except for guys who have attended other sex parties! There are 30 guys here out of a huge gay population in London.

The second thing is, 'so what?' You are both here, both interested in having sex. Let yourself go and have fun. You don't have to touch the other guy's weiner if you don't want to.

This is an email exchange from 2006 - quite a while ago - when someone did recognise another guy at the orgy.

To: islingtonorgy@hotmail.co.uk

Subject: RE: Islington orgy

Hi , Well what can I say? That was brilliant. Really horny and great fun. I
was quite nervous but still had fun. Didn't really get too involved in
it all but wished i could've been that guy who kept being fucked - wow
he can take it. You are a great host too so thank you. Nice chilled
atmosphere. I think i was hitting the beer to cope with it all...
Thanx again...

Hey, if you ever do that again, i'd be happy to come again if you decide
to ask me mate.

Also, you asked us to tell you if we didn't want to share profiles with
the group. I'm OK with that but there is one guy that i would prefer not
to have my profile. Can we chat about it on here or gaydar so that we
can avoid that please. There's nothing bad that happened but one guy is
0ne of my best friend's new flatmates so i just don't want him to see my
profile. I hope you understand.
He left earlyish...he was the shortish kinda spanish guy....i
don't know his name...
Let me know what you think of that...

Thanks again mate...
BTW really nice guys too...
I haven't stopped smiling...x

From: "Islington Orgy" <islingtonorgy@hotmail.co.uk
Subject: RE: Islington orgy
Hi,
Thanks for message - glad you enjoyed. I left your name off the list I
sent round (as you have probably seen) - I thought you had said that
before, but maybe I'm imagining that. I think I know the guy you mean - XXX
Watch profile for date of next!
Cheers

To: islingtonorgy@hotmail.co.uk
Subject: RE: Islington orgy
hi,yeah i think that's the guy. sorry, i'm not trying to be difficult. i
steered clear of him and respected his privacy and he didn't chat to me or
get close to me so he prob didn't realy know how he knew me...i should
just relax...
i'll definitely watch out for the next one...do you send emails around to
past attendees who you want to come again? or is it up to us to keep a lookout...???
catch you soon...
m x

From: "Islington Orgy" <islingtonorgy@hotmail.co.uk
Subject: RE: Islington orgy
If he did know you, he's probably worried that you will tell his flat mate
that he was here!
I don't send emails, so watch profile for next date.
Cheers

Yeah...i won't worry about it. We were both having a good time so no big deal...Thanks again...looking forward to next date if i am available....

Age limits

Received : Saturday 11 August 2007 00:11

Do I assume you're really strict about age limits?
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Sent : Saturday 11 August 2007 00:14

well, a bit - but 98 is a bit too old soz
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Thanks for your reply.....merely wanted to see if you judge by age or profile.And in fact age is your only criteria!I put my age at 98 for exactly that reason.Hope your orgy goes well


I was trying to be nice! He may not have been 98, but he wasn't far off.