Someone posted a comment asking what my definition of 'vanilla' is.
It's a good question and one that I get asked quite a bit. It's one of those phrases that you assume everyone knows, but this isn't the case. Additionally, the word seems to mean different things to different people.
So what does it mean with respect to Islingtonorgy?
A search on the internet defines 'vanilla sex' as what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual behaviour. Hmm, I'm on rocky ground already, as I don't think a gay orgy is really regarded as coventional sexual behaviour (yet).
Wikipedia acknowledges that different cultures, subcultures, and individuals have different ideas about what constitutes this type of sex. And I think the sort of sex that happens here is fairly conventional in gay circles. Sucking, wanking, kissing, fucking, frottage (look it up - nothing to do with cheese).
Double penetration, spit roasting, bukkake (cumming on a guys face) and (what do you call it when someone is fucking a guy who is fucking another guy - is it a bus queue?) are things that also happen here.
I saw a guy take a guy's load in his mouth and then he snogged (I love the word snog) the guy who came in his mouth - sharing the cum between them. The guy was a bit surprised - the look on his face was hysterical. Apparently that's a snowball!
What Islingtonorgy is not about is BDSM (bondage/discipline/dominance/submission/sadism/masochism). It's not about leather or slings or pain or blood or piss or shit. And it's not about bareback.
Islingtonorgy is also about having a fun time - talking to guys, having a drink, having a laugh and keeping my flat clean :-)
Vanilla may be my sexual preference, but if you're buying me a cornet then Phish food and rocky road are my vices.
Friday 6 July 2007
Tuesday 3 July 2007
My greatest achievement
The date of the next orgy has now been set - Sat 1st September. I try to hold them every 6-8 weeks. The break this time will be 9 weeks, but it's a busy summer! I've already had some guys telling me off (jokingly, I hope) that it's too long to wait. It will pass in no time.
So you have 7 weeks in which to apply before I send the invites. Get in early!
I notice today that I've now had over 100,000 views. Is it wrong to be pleased by such a superficial milestone? No matter.
I've been on this profile since 14 Jan 2006, so that's 188 views every day!
Hey - orgyboys has had 418,000 views!! Now that's impressive!
So you have 7 weeks in which to apply before I send the invites. Get in early!
I notice today that I've now had over 100,000 views. Is it wrong to be pleased by such a superficial milestone? No matter.
I've been on this profile since 14 Jan 2006, so that's 188 views every day!
Hey - orgyboys has had 418,000 views!! Now that's impressive!
Sunday 1 July 2007
30th June orgy
31 guys attended the orgy last night (30th June). I said after the May orgy that 25 was the perfect number, but 31 is darn hot too!
The stats:
61 initially invited
9 additional invites sent
41 confirmed
5 cancelled (1 on Thu, 3 on Fri, 1 on Sat)
5 non attenders
31 attended
31 muscled versatile
27 slim active
26 muscled versatile
25 defined versatile
26 defined versatile
27 average passive/versatile
29 slim passive/versatile
37 defined active/versatile
28 slim versatile
29 defined passive/versatile
30 slim active
29 muscled passive/versatile
29 slim active
34 muscled versatile
27 defined versatile
22 slim active
28 defined versatile
26 ??? Active/versatile
33 slim passive/versatile
36 defined versatile
19 defined active/versatile
36 slim passive/versatile
32 slim Active/versatile
34 muscled ??
36 defined active
25 defined ???
31 defined Active/versatile
29 slim ???
30 slim versatile
24 slim versatile
36 slim active/versatile
I was a little concerned that there would be alot of guys not turning up because of London Pride - but that wasn't the case. I suppose the weather helped.
It was a great night - brilliant guys and everyone interacted well. It sort of flows from the lounge to the bedroom and back again (and again, and again!).
A bit of an incident last night - someone was sick. In the lounge! On the floor/duvet/pillow!!
He'd been drinking red wine and the guys who saw it said it looked a bit freaky, like he was puking blood. Urggh.
We managed not to make a drama out of a crisis and many thanks to the guys who dealt with it so well. 4 or 5 guys dragged him to the bathroom where he remained in the bath for most of the night throwing up. Other guys helped clear things up so we could carry on as normal. Everyone kept an eye on him through the evening as well (people did have showers with him lying in the bath! But it kept him clean of sick!)
I've said it before, but I've always been really lucky with the guys who come and last night reinforced that. People could have left things for me to sort out on my own, but they didn't.
So, at the end of the evening I was left with a sick guy in the bath. He eventually moved to the bed, once the sickness subsided and stayed the night. He has just left this morning. He thought he'd been sick in the toilet - I told him what had happened and he looked suitably ashamed.
I didn't show him the duvet which is on the balcony looking a strage shade of red and I will be throwing away. I just hope the twister duvet cover is ok! (no, we didn't play last night).
The stats:
61 initially invited
9 additional invites sent
41 confirmed
5 cancelled (1 on Thu, 3 on Fri, 1 on Sat)
5 non attenders
31 attended
31 muscled versatile
27 slim active
26 muscled versatile
25 defined versatile
26 defined versatile
27 average passive/versatile
29 slim passive/versatile
37 defined active/versatile
28 slim versatile
29 defined passive/versatile
30 slim active
29 muscled passive/versatile
29 slim active
34 muscled versatile
27 defined versatile
22 slim active
28 defined versatile
26 ??? Active/versatile
33 slim passive/versatile
36 defined versatile
19 defined active/versatile
36 slim passive/versatile
32 slim Active/versatile
34 muscled ??
36 defined active
25 defined ???
31 defined Active/versatile
29 slim ???
30 slim versatile
24 slim versatile
36 slim active/versatile
I was a little concerned that there would be alot of guys not turning up because of London Pride - but that wasn't the case. I suppose the weather helped.
It was a great night - brilliant guys and everyone interacted well. It sort of flows from the lounge to the bedroom and back again (and again, and again!).
A bit of an incident last night - someone was sick. In the lounge! On the floor/duvet/pillow!!
He'd been drinking red wine and the guys who saw it said it looked a bit freaky, like he was puking blood. Urggh.
We managed not to make a drama out of a crisis and many thanks to the guys who dealt with it so well. 4 or 5 guys dragged him to the bathroom where he remained in the bath for most of the night throwing up. Other guys helped clear things up so we could carry on as normal. Everyone kept an eye on him through the evening as well (people did have showers with him lying in the bath! But it kept him clean of sick!)
I've said it before, but I've always been really lucky with the guys who come and last night reinforced that. People could have left things for me to sort out on my own, but they didn't.
So, at the end of the evening I was left with a sick guy in the bath. He eventually moved to the bed, once the sickness subsided and stayed the night. He has just left this morning. He thought he'd been sick in the toilet - I told him what had happened and he looked suitably ashamed.
I didn't show him the duvet which is on the balcony looking a strage shade of red and I will be throwing away. I just hope the twister duvet cover is ok! (no, we didn't play last night).
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