Saturday 20 October 2007

Results are in

38 guys have confirmed for the October orgy next Saturday. Here are the results!

67 guys invited (Sept - 64)
38 guys have confirmed (Sept - 38)
13 cannot come (Sept - 12)
9 not responded (Sept - 12)
4 have not received the message (Sept - 0)
1 guys email not working (Sept - 2)
2 guys (couple) not interested

The couple who weren't interested any more sent the standard 'no thanks' message in response to the invite - that's a first for me! They had requested an invite and sent their email address, perhaps they'd forgotten?

I send the invites to the email address and to their gaydar profile. On the gaydar message I request notification of when they receive the message.

This way I can monitor who has received the message and who has not (this helps me when guys claim they have not received the message). Four guys have not received the message yet - which is more than usual. I do allow a late response from these guys as it doesn't seem fair otherwise.

The evenings are darker and colder now, which I prefer for the orgies. If we're lucky there might even be a trick or treat!

Sunday 14 October 2007

Read the profile - again!

Two things that annoy me (just slightly - irked rather than annoyed) are embodied in this exchange - chasing a reply to a message after hardly any time (I'm busy!) and not reading the profile - the date is fairly prominent!

Received : Monday 8 October 2007 21:58
can i come

Sent : Monday 8 October 2007 22:08
Hi - thanks for message.
Orgy is vanilla - safe sex, non-smoking. I try to find good looking and sociable guys with the intention of making it sociable as well as sexy. If interested, send an email address and I will add you to the list.
I finalise list and send out invites about 2 weeks before orgy. If interested, it would be good if you have more clear face pics. Cheers

Received : Monday 8 October 2007 22:18
xx@yyy.com I am non smoker, 35, toned, fit, 8"uc versatile, 38c, 30w
when is the next one

Received : Monday 8 October 2007 22:29
did you get my msg

Sent : Monday 8 October 2007 22:38
Thanks (you know you can check if someone has received your message - if it's in sent messages, yes. If not, no).

Anyway - have you read the profile? I assumed yes when I sent details; the date is there.

Received : Monday 8 October 2007 22:43
oh sorry missed that. ok will await your email instruction