Sober thoughts

In the orgy instructions, I ask guys not to arrive drunk. I know it can be tempting - people are a bit nervous and a drink will help.

There was a guy at the orgy on Saturday who seemed to be a bit drunk/high. I didn't really notice on arrival, but it became more noticeable that his behaviour was odd as the evening went on. I don't know if it was drink or if he was high on something.

The point is that it does not add to anyone's enjoyment of an orgy when you are drunk. Either your enjoyment or that of the other guys. His conversation was noticeably odd and commented on by a number of guys, he was spaced out wanking on his own alot and he was very wobbly on his feet. It's not an attractive combination.

I regret not asking him to leave, but for various reasons I did not. I had concerns that he was going to be the last to leave, especially when there were only about 8 guys left on the night. Regrettably, I did something that I haven't done before - I called an end to the evening (people were fairly spent by then) and everyone left.

I'm sure he would have been fine - but I never forget that these people are strangers to me and I didn't want to be on my own with him.

Anyway, I mustn't focus on the negative - it did impact on my enjoyment of the evening, but I really don't think most of the guys attending were especially bothered. At least he didn't throw up!

Worried about pics and vids

Received : Friday 14 September 2007 21:46

hey there might organise a wee trip down to london soon, noticed your profile and it intrigues me, ive had 3sums and a 5sum once (didnt really enjoy the latter as the guys weren't my type, kinda got railroaded into it by my mate) into anything fun, safe and horny, no drugs (poppers at a push but not essential) nothing too wierd, plain vanilla, guys must be good looking (dont really have much of an issue with age, not one of these must be 18-22 only) my stats are 5ft 11" 32/34 waist (bit of a belly but slowly toning up) 38 chest.


another question though, perhaps im being paranoid, but do u not get folk trying to film these things on their phones etc, as i dont want to be caught up in a porn movie. heres my pics, if you think im orgy material get back in touch, if not, the auto response will do, take care

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Received : Friday 14 September 2007 21:48

ps i wont be down in london by 27/10 so im not requesting to be put on list just now, as i might not be able to go. just wondering if i was good looking enough for you. so if there is any orgies in future, i can have my name put on list
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Sent : Friday 14 September 2007 22:32

Hi - watch the profile for future dates and send me a message then (I organise one at a time and don't have a list - over 200 guys have attended, it would be unfeasible!).
No pics or vids. Strip to pants on arrival and then guys are naked - you'd notice!

October orgy stats

There were 27 guys at last night's orgy - details below

67 initially invited (Sept 64)
0 additional invites sent (Sept 6)
38 confirmed (Sept 45)
6 cancelled (Sept 9)
5 non attenders (Sept 5)
27 attended (Sept 31)

25 defined active
33 slim passive/versatile
30 muscled passive/versatile
38 defined active
33 defined versatile
28 slim versatile
24 defined active
30 average passive
23 slim versatile
25 defined versatile
24 defined ???
27 slim passive
28 slim versatile
27 slim versatile
34 muscled ??
37 defined versatile
36 defined active
25 defined ???
27 slim passive/versatile
30 average versatile
32 slim versatile
34 slim versatile
27 slim passive/versatile
39 slim versatile