Sober thoughts

In the orgy instructions, I ask guys not to arrive drunk. I know it can be tempting - people are a bit nervous and a drink will help.

There was a guy at the orgy on Saturday who seemed to be a bit drunk/high. I didn't really notice on arrival, but it became more noticeable that his behaviour was odd as the evening went on. I don't know if it was drink or if he was high on something.

The point is that it does not add to anyone's enjoyment of an orgy when you are drunk. Either your enjoyment or that of the other guys. His conversation was noticeably odd and commented on by a number of guys, he was spaced out wanking on his own alot and he was very wobbly on his feet. It's not an attractive combination.

I regret not asking him to leave, but for various reasons I did not. I had concerns that he was going to be the last to leave, especially when there were only about 8 guys left on the night. Regrettably, I did something that I haven't done before - I called an end to the evening (people were fairly spent by then) and everyone left.

I'm sure he would have been fine - but I never forget that these people are strangers to me and I didn't want to be on my own with him.

Anyway, I mustn't focus on the negative - it did impact on my enjoyment of the evening, but I really don't think most of the guys attending were especially bothered. At least he didn't throw up!