Organised orgy

Posted - 21 Jan 2007

One of the key skills of running this orgy is organisation - the gaydar features help. I use notes to record messages and thoughts, symbols to indicate whether I have sent messages or don't want to invites someone and friends/favourites to mark those who have been and those who have been invited.

As the orgy has been going for a year and I get alot of messages, this helps me keep track of individuals.

I don't think people expect me to remember who they are - I get guys who have sent me abusive messages asking to come to the orgy, i get people saying that they have been to a previous orgy and can they come again (erm - i have no record of inviting you!).

A guy asked if he could come, I sent no (politely) and he sent an abusive message and then blocked me from sending messages. Today he again asked if he could come and had forgotten that he had blocked me sending him messages!

I try to be polite in all my communications. I can't invite everyone! Please try to take rejection calmly, it's only sex!