Justify your love

Hey - I got a comment. Oh - it's not a nice one :(

your orgy is very boring. only white gay guys fucking each other while the non white guys are left in the corner.

I don't recognise my orgies from this description. I hope it's not true. I'm always fairly aware of what is going on (although try not to get too concerned if a guy is looking a little lost).

At the second orgy, there was a guy who left saying that no-one was interested in him, because of his ethnicity. I don't think it was because of this. I pick good looking guys and when people throw themselves into it then they will have fun.

A guy who attended the last orgy had some concerns before the orgy, which I tried to address:

- There`s no race issue for you the person who decide,but is there any race issue among those who attend? What happen if some of them refuse to have fun with asians?

THERE ARE SOME WHO DON`T LIKE ASIANS AND I HAVE NOTICED THIS IN THE PAST - BUT AS YOU SAY, THERE ARE 30 GUYS SO GENERALLY PEOPLE FIND OTHERS THEY LIKE. THE TRICK IS TO THROW YOURSELF INTO IT. IT IS THE SHY PEOPLE WHO END UP BEING IGNORED - NOT THOSE OF COLOUR.

- In 20-30 people, obviously, there are some people I fancy, some I don`t and the otherway round, how to deal with that? What`s up if people I want to play with don`t fancy me and some other who want to play with me but I`m not really into?

IT`S THE SAME AS REAL LIFE REALLY. I EXPECT EVERYONE TO BE POLITE AND GET INVOLVED BUT BODY LANGUAGE IS THE GENERAL WAY PEOPLE MAKE IT CLEAR THEY DON`T WANT TO PLAY

- Safe sex is a must for me, so who will provide the condom and lube? or people bring it themselves

I PROVIDE BOTH. IF PEOPLE BRING SOME, THAT`S GREAT.

- If in unforseen circumstances, I cannot attend the current orgy, will I be able to attend the next one?

AS LONG AS YOU LET ME KNOW. IF YOU DO NOT RESPOND OR CONFIRM AND DON`T ATTEND THEN I DON`T INVITE AGAIN

And finally, can you tell me honestly `is the pic you put in the profile `islingtonorgy` is the real pic you took from the orgy scene? Somehow I don`t think it is as the orgy is confidential right?

THERE ARE NO PICS FROM THE ORGY

He came to the orgy and threw himself into it, staying till the end and sent this email:

I had such a great time on your house this evening. The guys comming sare so damn hot...and the atmosphere was very social. That was all thanks to you, from choosing people, organising the party and make everyone involve in it. So thank you very much for everything.

I felt a bit less confident at first, seeing that the guys attending are almost 'white' and worrying I might not be their type. But after that, I let it slip out of my mind and as you said, I throwed myself into the bunch, sucking cocks, touching bodies, sharing a hot kiss with the 'big bottom guy' (the skinhead one. He has quite a nice body and hot ass doesn't he?). nd later joined the couple in the bedroom for a 3some and surprisingly, it seemed to me that no one has any reaction that show they particularly dislike me or don't want me to join in. That was great and I quickly enjoyed every bit of it...I came twice lol. I was greatful that you chose the guys with no 'race issue'. As ur orgy is very 'mutilratial' ins't it?

It was the great orgy I've ever attended, much better than the previous one I'v been. It' was really worth for all the time waiting for your invite and the day to come. I ended up beeing the only oriental guy attending today orgy, but hopefully, my 'Far East' representation was not too bad. Anyway, thanks again.

I guess I don't have to justify the orgy (but I realise that I am!) Everyone will have a different experience. I try to find guys who will mix, but there's not a huge amount I can do on the evening. I like to think people have a good time, the feedback suggests that most do (and then some!)

In my continuing self justification, I've had a look at the 'ethnic origin' part of the profile for the 33 guys confirmed. 2 hispanic, 2 south asian, 2 asian, 1 black, 1 middle eastern and 1 other. Not the united nations or even representative of the London population, but that's the list.