Sociable AND sexy?

So how do I try and ensure that the guys who attend are sociable?

I don't want to be in my own home and feel awkward with the guys there. I want to have sex with the guys and then relax and have a chat. And then have more sex - etc, etc.

I'm not succesful with all the guys. I remember at the first orgy there was a guy there who didn't seem to interact with many guys at all. In fact, he was a bit creepy - although good looking.

There are 3 things I use to gauge sociability:

Profile

This is the main thing. Does the guy have something written in their profile which portrays them as a nice guy? There are plenty of good looking guys on gaydar, but would I want to meet up with them?

Chat

I don't chat with the majority of guys - as I have said before, I am away from the computer most of the time. But if I'm here then I will chat with guys.

There are people who start with 'Hi'. I reply with 'Hi' and they don't say anything else! No, you're not coming you creepy guy.

Messages

Although I don't 'chat' with most guys - there is an exchange of messages with the guys who apply. You may have worked out from the blog that I paste these message exchanges to 'notes' to refer to in the future.

If a guy is interested then I ask them to send me an email address and I will add them to the list. Lots of guys then reply with another@hotmail.co.uk with nothing else. No 'thanks', no 'I'm looking forward to it'. As an indication of whether we will get on, I take that as a no!



It's not just for my benefit - it's for the benefit of all the guys at the orgy. It makes it more enjoyable for all and thankfully, with these completely unscientific methods, it seems to have worked to date.