The choice

Ok, the decision has been made and I've sent the invites out for the October orgy. It takes ages to decide on the final list and send the invites out. I had 98 suitable guys on the list and I have sent the invite out to 67 guys on that list (with a view to having 25-30 guys on the night).

Once again - sorry if I took your details but did not send an invite. And once again, if you did receive an invite - please confirm by Fri 19th Oct.

Building up the list is a bit of an administrative blur for me. People apply and I make a quick decision based on the pics, profile and message and say yes or no. Guys reply and I stick them on Favourites which means they are on the list. I don't entirely register that the guys are stunning and interesting and amusing.

2 weeks before the orgy I review the list, along with my notes which record the messages, and transfer the details onto a spreadsheet. It's at this point I think, 'Wow - this is amazing!' And at this point I thing, 'Shit, I have to choose 60ish guys'.

On the long list were 7 couples and 32 guys who have been before. This is tricky - I try to ensure half the guys are new and I can't invite 7 couples to the orgy. I should probably hold couple evenings or alumni gatherings.

So, the decision has been made. I've sent the invites. I'm going to sit back and relax. It's over to you.